Clear • Kind • Firm

High-performing men who over-give, over-commit, and end up resentful. Partners, dads, founders, and leaders heading into holiday pressure who want to be honest and kind.

• 2 live calls (60 min, ET): coaching + scripts you’ll use that day

• Daily micro-drills (5–7 min): one idea, one sentence, one action

• Script Pack: family, partner, work, money, time

• Buddy system: two real check-ins for support

• Recordings + recap notes for every call

• 3 boundaries set in real life (documented)

• Less resentment, more respect (for them and for you)

• Your personal Boundary Map (non-negotiables, triggers, go-to lines)

• Mon, Nov 10 @ 7–8pm — Kickoff: clarity + first reps

• Sun, Nov 16 @ 7–7:45pm — Optional Role-Play Lab

• Sun, Nov 23 @ 7–8pm — Final: troubleshoot + graduate with 3 shipped boundaries
  Can’t make a call? Recordings provided. Drills via email/text.

• $179 (Early-bird $149 thru Oct 31)

Bonuses (included): Holiday Conversations Cheat Sheet · “Debrief in 3” worksheet

VIP adds a private 30-min 1:1 with Ben to tailor your exact script and rehearse delivery. Priority support included.$329 (Early-bird $299 thru Oct 31) • Capped at 10

“I finally said a clean ‘no’ to a request that usually wrecks my week. It felt kind, and it stuck.”

"I was able to set a clear loving boundary with my partner for the first in a long time. Even she was surprised!"

"Wow...this shed so much light on the boundaries that are slippery or missing in my life, and Ben helped me create some beautiful, clear, new boundaries that I feel good about."

This is a men-only container (inclusive of trans men). We keep confidences. This is coaching and education, not therapy or crisis care. Share at your pace.

What if I miss a call? You’ll get the recording + recap notes.
Do I have to have a buddy? No, but most men find the check-ins crucial.
Refunds? All sales are final. No refunds.
Can I upgrade to VIP later? Yes—see below.

VIP adds a private 30-min 1:1 with Ben to tailor your exact script and rehearse delivery. Priority support included. Capped at 10 seats.